You know that saying "God won't give you more than you can handle"? I don't believe that. First, I don't believe that God purposely causes bad things to happen to you. He loves us too much to give us cancer or cause miscarriages or job losses or any other horrible thing we face in our lives. I do believe that He helps us through the tough times if we turn to Him. The Holy Spirit gives us the fortitude and wisdom to power through the storms. Friends, family, and angels offer us comfort when we're at the end of our ropes. And we find peace through Jesus.
So, God doesn't give us more than we can handle, but He does give us the resources we need to meet those challenges head on.